"Things happened, past is past" Said that little voice.
I went to accompany my mum last tuesday being pleasured driving as usual since mum was not quite well these past few weeks because of her 'peranakan turun' or something like that (bibik is taking charge in helping out to urut the 'thing' going up again but seriously you won't dare to see how it goes I tell ya, one thing I can said is that; loves your mum unconditionally *hugs mum now*) so, I drove the car around bandar utama that day, mum's having this interview session with BFM radio; It is stands for Business something something, wait until you notice there's Durian.fm in Malaysia whathewhatwhathe why in the world they named it on that -_-
Anyway, the route was a bit confusing since they got lots of traffic lights and the signage was not helping either (this is another issue yang kita patut ketengahkan serta kedepankan mahupun kekiri dan kekanan di Malaysia agar tidak bingung dan berdesing kepala tahap ketiga bagi mencari jalan yang berpetakan nombor jalan dan huruf semata) But we finally made it after asking this one uncle who told us to go straight and take a look on the left side of the road after the forth traffic lights, with fulled of confidence and energize in self I drove straight away happily counting the number of traffic lights but it ended up the traffic lights were actually there, four of it. NOT the forth one in each blocks. Thanks a lot uncle!
I slowed down the car and turned signals light on since mum was calling her partner to recomfirm the place. Planning on to relax a little bit when out of the blue something crashed my car from behind. (Berdesing lagi kepala buat kali kedua sempatlah amnesia seminit tiga) I'm just being freeze for a moment since it doesn't really hits me what's happening at that time until mum asked me to stop the car at the side of the road. Then this one chinese guy with his perdana came out and attacked the taxi driver; since the taxi driver is blocking the way and he was not only nicely crashed crv, but also scratching the taxi.
And the dramas goes on.
People will easily have this 'triggered-emotion' everytime we faced something unexpectedly like car's accident for an example. No matter which side we are, either the one that got hit or maybe the one that speeding and suddenly hits random car itself, we need to realize and be in the present. In the NOW. Because the thing is, thing's happened. It has happened. Unless you have some kind of time machine to rewind the time ( Oh please make one).
Speaking of emotion it can be any typed of it, we might feels mad, sad, afraid, frightened, or whatever that comes at that point of time. How we choose to tolerate with the situation, how we planned to take it as it is, how we actually see things as 'now' is another different story. That chinese guy I mentioned before was really mad I can tell, from the way he got out from his car, roughly took his seat-belt off, smashed his door after he opened it. But then the situation went all change three hundred sixty degree when mum is acting really cool, checking each of the scratched and damage at the back of the car, even asked him if he is okay. He 'get' that and I mean it because after that he can actually tolerate well. Well enough to cooperate. (Mummy ftw!)
And I really can relate this incidents with what happened quite some time ago at my aunt's car. Where it is also involved another taxi (taxi just loves accident lol) and two younger boy. They're really young, they were just sixteen or something. The whole cases went all complicated when the one who drove the car was actually a close friend of the one who's a son of the owner of the car who gave the permission to the one who drove it without the owner of the taxi's permission itself. (I know it really is complicated, I got to really hadam the situation for quite some time before understands it well) So they were actually like illegally drove the car around. But that's not the point.
The most blue-printed part is that when suddenly their parents arrived and I swear I saw with my own pair of eyes that the boy got slapped with his dad. Worst case, infront of everyone. (When I said, everyone I really meant corps and the whole neighbourhood) Things get even worst when the 'mummies' especially lagi menambahkan bara api dengan memberi kata kata semangat buat si suami agar melempang si anak dengan lebih kuat. Tidak dilupakan kata kata pemberi tenaga dari beberapa jiran tetangga.
The drama goes on when the father not just slapped his son, but also shouted at him and asked him what's more that they haven't provided? We sent you schools, we gave you money, we even gave you freedom of doing your own things. He also mentioned that how he had actually thought of what to give and buy for the boy's future (kind of) Mum and aunt tried to cool down the situation but what's more that you can do when you deal with it other than said things like "Takpe encik, benda dah jadi"
Things are just getting better at the end of the day.
"Kita tak kenal orang ni siapa. Sebab selalunya diorang ingat saya tak pandai jaga anak. Sebelum dicaci maki, ada baiknya saya caci maki anak sendiri agar orang keliling dan yang berkenaan puas hati"
Can you see their 'reality box'?